THE STORY GOES SOMETHING LIKE THIS: (let's pretend I'm the man in this story and you're the woman) You and I meet. You want more, but you're scared of talking to me about it because you don't know where I'm at.
You're scared because I've talked to you about all the bad experiences I've had with women in the past.
and how to make things with that right man work for you.
WHY MEN DON’T CALL AGAIN AFTER GREAT DATES I probably don’t have to tell you that men do this “suddenly pulling away” thing in all different situations from “casual” dating to committed relationships.
Out of nowhere he does a complete 180 and tells you he doesn’t like your situation or something really important about YOU. I’ve helped plenty of women create that “shift” in their dating life or their relationship that now PREVENTS these frustrating things from happening.
And now I want to share some real-world insights with you about how men think…
Probably you’ve noticed, for example, that when you really want to talk about something “sensitive” like where your relationship is headed, or what he’s really feeling… You may be confused as to why men don’t open up as easily as your girlfriends do, or seem to resist when you try to “help” him or give advice…
And don’t you hate it (’cause we all do) when men seem to clam up, and withdraw, giving us the “silent treatment” or worse – disappear for a while?
But it’s gotten a lot more complicated of late (I’m sure you’ve noticed). there are literally more educated, successful, amazing women all looking for love in the same (shrinking) pool of men. Reason #2: Thanks to the internet, and the incredible success of internet dating, there’s a (false) feeling in the culture that “love is just a mouse click away,” and that there’s an endless supply of fantastic people to find, meet, and fall in love with at all times. thus many singles have become ridiculously unrealistic in their expectations of who they’ll end up with, causing them to be too easily “spooked” on early dates, believing they can and should “have it all” in a mate…And they do it without warning, and for what seems like no good reason at all.How many times have you gone on a first or second date with a man and had an absolutely fantastic time… a man can DO all kinds of things with you from hang out to take things to a sexual level…If you know what I’m talking about here, then you know that not-so-great feeling you get when you’re sharing an amazing connection with the man in your life but… How in the world did he think things were supposed to end up working? I get that it must feel IMPOSSIBLE sometimes to get close to a man and have a real relationship. Tons of other women like you have gone from where you are now to having an easy time communicating with the men in their lives and growing from that UNCERTAIN area of the first few dates to a loving and secure relationship.